Life right now can be a tough time for many couples, the time you wish you had together is now possible but all you can think about is ways to get away with murdering your significant other. First, off put down your weapons and remember you love this person that is now driving you crazy. To help with all of this we have come up with a few things to keep both of you alive and still in love.
Tip #1: GET OUT OF THE HOUSE
We understand everything is locked down and you can’t go out to eat and sit down at a nice restaurant to take the edge off. No one has said you can’t take a walk or make going to the grocery store like a date. Cabin fever can set in on the best of couples when confined to the same spot and still having to work or feeling like you can’t get out and do all of the things you used to know and love to do. Getting out of the house will allow both of you to relax and the fresh air can do you both some good. So, take a walk, sit on your balcony, deck, or patio if you have one.
Tip #2: PLAN A FUTURE VACATION OR SHORT ROAD TRIP
In our current climate of lockdown one of the things that can help is thinking about the future in a fun way. That’s right plan a vacation and it doesn’t matter how long it is a weekend is fine. Fantasizing can help relieve the tension and give you something to look forward to. May times in life couples can ride thoughts happy times to come through difficult times. The good thing is these aren’t really difficult relationship times it’s just an unexpected readjustment to your relationship. Think about anywhere you’d like to go and plan it out. The current situation won’t last forever, and positive thoughts of future plans can be a fun thing to look forward to.
Tip #3: REMEMBER WHAT YOU PLANNED TOGETHER IF YOU HAD MORE TIME
So many times, we as couples talk about things we are going to do when we get more time. News flash, that time is now. It may be difficult to do a lot of traveling right now but not everything has to involve travel. Also, remember that was tip #2 anyway. It can be house projects, reading together, taking up new hobbies whatever it may be all is not lost. The main thing in this case is to find things to do together. It can even be separate things if that works for just make sure there is a sense of unity to it such as starting the new hobbies at the same time and then discussing how it went. Remember there are no rules here.
Tip #4: SEX, SEX, AND MORE SEX
I know you were thinking and now it’s time. You’ve thought about it, you fantasized about it, you’ve even planned it now just do it. There aren’t many things more beautiful than when two committed people come together in making love. You’re stuck in the house anyway now have some fun. Go wild, be inventive, be daring, be risqué, be whatever you like. Make it spontaneous, make it loving, make it last, and make it memorable. Talk about it before, during, and afterwards if you want it’s your life and it’s your fun. You have all this time together enjoy each other it’s ok and it’s needed to help make this time together enjoyable.
We hope these tips will help you survive the COVID-19 hysteria. We understand this is a tough time for everyone and being taken out of your routine can be upsetting not to mention the financial difficulties many are facing. These tips are meant to make things more enjoyable and lighthearted for all involved.